Many parents face the heartbreaking moment when their child says “I don’t want to go.” This situation brings stress, confusion and worry about doing the right thing.
North Dakota courts expect parents to uphold visitation orders, yet managing a resistant child requires sensitivity and understanding. Your response to this challenge might affect your child’s relationships with both parents for years to come.
Understanding your role as a parent
Parents often struggle to balance their child’s feelings with court-ordered obligations. Your path forward starts with knowing where you stand. Keep these points in mind:
- Legal requirements: You must support scheduled visits and encourage a positive relationship between your child and their other parent
- Communication steps: Write down specific instances when your child resists visits, along with your attempts to help
- Family support: A qualified counselor might uncover hidden reasons behind your child’s resistance
- Court compliance: Your attorney should know about ongoing resistance to protect your rights
Your child needs steady guidance through this emotional situation, even when it feels overwhelming.
Steps you can take right now
Taking action in a thoughtful way helps build trust and maintain important family bonds. Try these approaches:
- Ask your child open questions about their concerns
- Share important updates with your co-parent
- Keep a record of each time your child refuses visits
- Point out positive memories your child shares with their other parent
- Reach out to family counselors for guidance
Small steps forward create lasting positive changes for everyone.
Your caring response today shapes how your child views family relationships tomorrow. With patience and understanding, you can help your child navigate this challenging time while meeting your legal obligations.